‘He proposed to me, but he didn’t tell me that he already has two children’

Dear Love Doctor, I am Chioma from Enugu state. I live in Port Harcourt and I am a student. This...

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Dear Love Doctor,

I am Chioma from Enugu state. I live in Port Harcourt and I am a student. This is my story.I am in a relationship with a guy and he is my first love. He is from the Northern part of the country. He proposed to me and I accepted to marry him. But after a year of honest devotion and pure affection, I found out that he has two children and the mother of his children still lives in his house in Lagos while we have fixed a date for our traditional marriage. Should I quit or go on? What should I do?

From Chioma.

Love Doctor’s Advice:

Dear Chioma,

It’s rather ridiculous that you’ve been dating a man of whom you know little or nothing about and yet you decided to rush into marriage with him. It is rather unfortunate that you have been a fool for love. The fact is that a partner who hides the truth from you from the beginning or when the affair begins to get serious certainly cannot be trusted.

You do not know who you have been dating and as a result, I strongly advise you to suspend the so-called traditional marriage. Again, if the mother of your man’s children still lives in his house, it is very likely that she is married to him. In other words, you must have been dating a married man who probably wants you as a second wife.

From the look of things there is still so much more you need to know about that man because he has apparently hidden it all from you. The fact is that if you don’t know who you’re dating, then you won’t know who you’re married to.

That simply means you’ve been sleeping with a stranger for the past year. They say that love is blind, but that does not mean being ignorant as you’ve been. The lesson in this is that you must try to know your man well next time, instead of rushing into marriage with him.

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