‘She left me for my friend’

Dear Love Doctor, I’m going to start from the beginning. This girl and I have been best friends for about...

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Dear Love Doctor,

I’m going to start from the beginning. This girl and I have been best friends for about a year and she always came to me with her problems and stuff. She recently broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years and she wanted me to be there for her since she took it hard.

This happened about 2 months ago. I always had feelings for her but since I respect others’ relationships, I kept those feelings to myself but everyone including her knew I liked her. Now for the past 2 months we got really close and she made it clear she liked me too. We hung out everyday, or she’d come over, and we would chat all day and all night.

We also did stupid stuff together like sing to each other at night and other romantic things.

Now, about a week and a half ago, she traveled and stopped responding to my texts and calls. During this time I noticed that my friend and her have been texting constantly but I wasn’t worried that much since my friend already had a crush on a different girl. When my girl came back, all communication stopped. She stopped coming over and didn’t have time to hang out with me anymore.

Later she told me that she only wants to be my friend. That same day, my friend told me that he was taking her out to the movies and that I should not bother her anymore.

This was when I felt extremely betrayed by my friend and by my girl. If there’s any way I can get her back, I’d like to hear the advice.

From Andy.

Love Doctor’s Advice:

Dear Andy,

Your so-called friend didn’t snatch her from you, because she went to him on her own accord. If she wanted to be your girlfriend, she would be. Simple.

She used you while she was grieving for her last relationship, but when she got over it, she found someone else who she is attracted to.

I think you need to stay away from her. She’s not actually your friend and neither is he. Your circle of friends will understand and now you are going to find out who your real friends are in your time of need. I am sorry that this happened to you, but you will get over this. Don’t waste your time. Give your kindness and heart to someone who genuinely cares about you and wants it.

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