Dear Love Doctor,
I dated a girl for two years, providing for her and telling her that I need to have a golden marriage. No pre-marital sex. She came pressing me to have sex with her but I refused.
I later gave in to her in order to show I’m not impotent. As we dated, she kept on deceiving me by saying that it was not yet time for me to see her parents.
After ‘eating’ (squandering) my money, I heard she was telling people how foolish I am, according to her. Later, someone showed me her wedding invitation card. I confronted her and she said that since I’m from another tribe she cannot marry me.
She even called me a coward, saying that there is nothing I can do since she is going to marry another man, and that her people are ready for me with machetes. I was shocked because she claimed to be a born again Christian. What do I do now?
Love Doctor’s Advice:
How can you date a girl for two years without realizing that she doesn’t love you and is only after your money? Not wanting pre-marital sex is good, but that girl was only pretending in order to deceive you. It’s common knowledge that many people who claim to be religious are mere hypocrites or pretenders.
Open your eyes next time. Don’t be deceived. Some men think because they’re rich, they can buy the love of any girl. Maybe you thought you could win her heart by providing for her. You didn’t know she had other plans.
Taking care of a girl won’t make her love you. Money can’t buy love. Go for hard-working girls. Experienced married men will tell you that a girl who depends on a man to take care of her is lazy and will never make a good wife.
A wife material is hard-working and undemanding. Girls who think they’re smart and play on the intelligence and hearts of men later meet their Waterloo in the hands of another man.
Don’t make trouble with her. Let her go. Have faith in God and keep searching for your ideal woman. In due time, you will find the one that is perfect for you.
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