Dear Love Doctor,
My wife is too sensitive sexually. She is simply too wet for my comfort. I mean she gets wet too easily! If
I say let me observe foreplay before real sex you’ll see that her
private part gets excessively wet and becomes slippery. Sex is not enjoyable without the grip and friction between the vaginal walls. Please help.
Love Doctor’s Advice:
Quite a number of women have such an unusual problem. During intercourse, their vaginas produce too much of fluid. At the beginning, their partners don’t usually complain, but later it starts to get on the nerves of both the woman and her husband. That’s why you shouldn’t think that your wife herself is happy about the development. Why do some women get too wet during intercourse? The fact is that many people think that sex is best when wet. That’s true, because a woman needs to be lubricated to a certain level, otherwise sex might be too painful for her.
Again, if you feel she gets too wet, you can help by licking and sucking her dry before penetrating her or before continuing with sexual intercourse. She might enjoy it even more that way, and in so doing you might make her reach orgasm faster and sweeter by licking and sucking her dry even before, during or after you penetrate her.
However, the question is: What constitutes too much wetness in a woman? The answer to that question depends largely on her male partner (you) and the way he touches or plays with her during foreplay like I said before, and also on several other factors such as the size of the man’s penis, looseness of the woman’s vagina, child birth, among others. Some men love it. Such men who love women who get very wet during sex say, ‘the wetter the better’. Therefore, what you see as a problem might not be a problem to another man.
However, on a general note, too much natural lubrication or wetness, during sex reduces pleasure for both partners. The woman stops ‘feeling’ the man’s penis or loses the sense of stimulation along the vaginal walls, and the man also loses that sensation of ‘tightness’ which he ought to feel.
So if excessive wetness is a problem for you and as a result you are not satisfied, you should see your doctor to see if there are some infections or other problems causing your wife’s excessive wetness, especially if it’s a recent development and if it doesn’t vary according to your wife’s Menstrual cycle.
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