Dear Love Doctor,
I’m a 20-year-old guy who has never kissed any girl on the lips; only on the cheek. I’m not very confident with myself when talking to girls because I overthink of situations all the time by predicting what’s going to happen and the things I should do, and when this happens I notice I become more nervous so I told myself I’ll stop thinking and just go with the flow but that way of thinking doesn’t remove my self anxiety. My real question is how do I become good with speaking to girls and find a girl who can be my next girlfriend?
I’m really becoming desperate now because all my friends have been in a relationship and I have not even once, in addition I’m in my 20’s now. I’m single and lonely. Please help me.
Love Doctor’s Advice:
Go with the flow is the right thing. The thing is you have to stay in the now. Fear is because you’re overthinking of the future and predicting the premature breakup of your relationship due of anxiety. So anxiety is caused by negative self talk and the worry.
Being 20 is still very young, so you have lots of time to find the right girl. Don’t be in a rush. Just enjoy making friendships with girls, and keep light. If it’s supposed to happen it will happen. You don’t have to force it, and don’t have to do anything special. You’ll know what to do when the time arrives, and you’ll be comfortable.
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